On September 22nd, I came home from school and saw a new little girl posted on our agency’s home page. Dane and I watched her video and sent an email to our agency contact requesting to be put on this little girl’s waiting list to possibly review her file. We had requested four other little girl files prior, but families accepted the files before us on the list. We just kept telling ourselves that it is “all in God’s timing.”
Friday, October 9th, we kicked off my birthday weekend by driving out to Carter Caves for a two-night camping trip. We arrived there around 4:30, started to unload the truck, and began setting up our tent. Once our tent was up and ready, we proceeded to put up our netted kitchen tent. All of a sudden, it started to drizzle and then just poured down rain! So, we quickly finished getting the kitchen tent secured and went into our regular tent. We sat there for about 10 minutes, and the rain finally stopped. By now, it was closer to 6:00. Dane brought our kitchen table, chairs, pop-up kitchen, and other food necessities into the kitchen tent for me to set up. Just as I finished putting the table cloth on our table, I heard Dane say, “Tava, come here.” I looked at him and noticed that he was standing by the side of his truck looking at his phone. I then started putting the weighted hooks on the tablecloth, when again, he said, “Tava, Come Here!” I saw him look away from his phone and then back down at it. Right away, my heart sank, thinking something was wrong. Something had happened and we were going to have to pack up and head home right away.
I ran over to the truck and asking him “What is it? “Is everything ok?” He began reading an email to me:
Dear Dane and Tava,
I left you a message on the phone as we are able to share the file of little _____ with
your family today. Her name is _________________ and she was born on 7.21.2014.
We looked at our phones for missed calls. Dane didn’t have any, but I did! I had two missed calls from our agency rep, one at 5:55 and again at 5:56!
As you can imagine, our eyes welled up with tears which began to fall as Dane continued to read. She was born the day after our wedding anniversary (7-20)! She is 14 months old, and will be closer to two years of age by the time we go to get her. We opened several attachments with pictures, medical information, and a video, etc. Oh my sweetness! Then and there we realized that she was just the perfect fit for our family! However, we would need to consult medical professionals to be sure that we could meet her needs. It was 7:00 by the time we came to the realization that this was happening, and we were losing daylight. We debated about whether or not we should head back home. After much discussion, we realized that with it being the weekend, there wasn’t anything we could do until Monday. So, we finished setting up our campsite and stayed. We went to the little gift shop on Saturday, and they had this little Panda on a key ring. The Panda’s name ironically rhymes with our little girl’s Chinese given name. So, we bought it as a souvenir to remember receiving the best email and news ever!
We returned home on Sunday, and told our families about how we were in the process of reviewing a little girl’s file. We didn’t give them much detail, as we wanted to check with doctors first on medical conditions listed for this little girl.
So, during the week of October 12th, we were busy sending her file to medical experts: a nurse friend, a neighbor pediatrician, and the doctors at the International Adoption Center at Children’s. We just had a week to give our final decision-if we accepted, she was ours; if not, she would be passed onto the next family on her list. First and foremost, we agreed that we needed to make sure that we could meet this little girl’s needs. Thursday at 4:00 we had a conference call with the head doctor at Children’s. She basically agreed with the other information we had gathered. Moreover, she told us that the doctor who invented the one procedure that this little girl would need was at our Children’s Hospital!!! We could not be in a better area for helping this little girl!!! That pretty much made our final decision-she was just meant to be our daughter! Thursday night, we went and told our families our decision!
Friday morning, Dane and I called our agency and left a message for our agency rep, telling her that this little girl is our daughter!!! Some additional medical information was requested by the doctors, which our agency was amazing in providing within 24 hours. Dane later spoke to our agency contact. She told Dane that we were #7 on this little girl's list and there were many families inquiring about her after us. Our next steps: We must submit a LOI (Letter of Intent) to China. Then, we will wait for LOA (Letter of Approval) from China. At this time, we cannot share pictures of her and other information until we receive our LOA (as stated by our agency and the CCCWA). Hopefully we will have LOA by Thanksgiving/ before Christmas. As of now, we should travel to get her February/ March of next year!
Today, Sunday, October 18th-What a beautiful thing to wake up and see our little girl moved on our agency Home Page from “Looking for my Forever Family” to “Matched!” She warms my heart and brings tears of joy to my eyes already! We now know what it feels like to see your child for the first time! Now, we will look forward to meeting her and holding her for the first and forever time!
Thank you for all of your continued prayers! God could not have led us to a more perfect little girl to complete our family!
We are also working on listing five questions in which our agency can request an update about our little girl (things we would like to know...ex. favorite toys, update on height and weight, etc.). There are several more documents that need to be filled out at this time! 
We are on the downhill slope of the process, which is moving quickly. Can't wait until the day we touch down and meet our precious little girl! Picture Reveal coming soon! Until then, here is her tiny footprint! 
We ordered Chinese for dinner the other night. This is what my fortune read: "A beautiful, smart, and loving person will be coming into your life." We cannot wait for the day when we see our daughter's face for the first time! All in God's timing. Til then, we are preparing for her arrival as much as we can. That's all for now! ~T
We ordered Chinese for dinner the other night. This is what my fortune read: "A beautiful, smart, and loving person will be coming into your life." We cannot wait for the day when we see our daughter's face for the first time! All in God's timing. Til then, we are preparing for her arrival as much as we can. That's all for now! ~T